Pre Ward and Parker

One of the projects I assigned my dad several years ago was to write the history of all the buildings past and present at the Ward and Parker property in the Crazies. These written memories were the first part of that series. By my Daddy.

There are many places in this world which seem new to us, but someone has been there first. So it was even back up the creek on the Sweet Grass. I know of no one finding rings of rocks that had outlined teepee locations, but Indians had been there. There was a grave sized mound of dirt on the lower end of the rocky flat about 3/4th of a mile down the valley from where we lived. Mother thought it was an Indian grave. Nobody checked it out.

 When I was ten or eleven years old I found a large buffalo skull and a brown-flint spear head that had fallen into the crevasse of an outcropping cliff beside the creek that ran out of the year round spring that furnished water for the house and sawmill that my father and his partner would build. Part of the flume they had built to carry water to the sawmill ran across the top of the outcropping cliff. If the skull and spearhead had not fallen into the cleft someone would have found it 10-12 years before I did. An Indian hunter was here and left his mark.

 I carried the skull home and Barney Brannin used it for one of the porch decorations for the Brannin Lodge. I played around with the spearhead, throwing it and maybe pounding it with a rock. It ended up becoming lost. I think I know within fifty feet of where it is. In my mind I can see an Indian brave leaving his skull and spearhead as an offering to the Master of the Hunt. As late as the 1940’s there were still signs of early pioneers. Old logging trails wandered through the fire-killed trees near the Horseshoe Prairie. One could see the stumps of trees they had cut for the Northern Pacific Railroad. I saw a man’s name and a date carved in the base of a burned-out stump. I think the date was in the 1800’s. Someone said that ties cut for the railroad were floated down the creek in high water. Maybe so, Ed Brannin had floated saw logs down the Sweet Grass to his sawmill near Basin Creek. 

C. M. Rein had a sawmill at the foot of the steep mountain west of Bruin Creek where Section 17 corners sections 18, 7, and 8. This may have been set up before 1900. We pastured cows and calves in this back corner of Section 17. I don’t think Barbara and Ralph have ever used it for a pasture. Sometimes the younger generation is wiser than their elders.

One place we knew as the “Logging Camp” was across the valley from Gommie’s Lake at base of Bruin’s Hump. Ed Brannin or C. M. Rein used this twenty or thirty years before Daddy and Ernest did in the 1930’s when they were sawing out the standing of fire-killed timber for house logs. The material from living trees would warp, and the bark on the green logs had to be peeled off. The dead timber made tough, non-shrinking timber that already had the bark removed from it. The “bunk house” cabin that nephew George uses was built from logs sawed from fire killed trees. Others went to John Moss and Carl Bussey houses on the west side of Big Timber.[1]

For years a rotten log and the remains of a cellar pit could be seen on each side of the road near the line fence west of Gommie’s Lake. The cellar pit and rotting base log was still visible in the 1930’s. Likely the place was used by the tie cutters of the 1800’s. This is where Bud Ward and Ernest Parker set up a cookstove and slept on the ground. 

Ward and Parker’s had purchased a sawmill from Ed Brannin. They set it up at the far end of the open land up the valley from Gommie’s Lake.[2] This was in 1916. Setting up the mill was their first construction project. They dug a watering pit for the steam engine in the swampy ground beside the field and laid down a track for the sawmill carriage to run on. In this picture the sawmill would have been located just right of midpoint of the far edge of the field. The stump in the foreground seems to be pointing at it. The place for the cook stove would be at the tree line just off the picture. 


[1]My Freshman year of high school Barbara, Kitty and I boarded with a Mrs. Smith in the Moss house. Mrs. Moss’s green trimmed Kalamazoo kitchen range helped pay for the Moss house. 

[2] Nearby a rotted log showed where a cabin once stood. Nearby was a pit and mound of dirt where a root cellar had been built.  Likely these were remains of a camp used in the late 1800’s by workers cutting ties for the Northern Pacific Railroad. 

Blackberry Winter

This morning while on my walk, I saw a few blackberries in bloom. That can only mean one thing here in the south: Blackberry Winter is just around the corner. In fact, cooler temperatures have been predicted for this weekend. Come to think of it, there were a couple of cooler days last week. Maybe that was Blackberry Winter, but the azaleas are blooming, and dandelions, and columbine, and daffodils, and the roses are budding. Maybe it’s one of those winters. I’m so confused!

Before we had the weather channel or meteorologists to give us the twenty-four-hour weather report, we relied on the old timers to “read” the weather. They could look at the sky and tell us what kind of weather to expect. My ancestors recognized the signs by observing nature’s phenomenon. They took note of when trees and plants leafed out and bloomed, when birds appeared, habits of bugs and animals, temperature and wind changes. Farmers knew when to plant their crops and gardens, when to take cover for a coming storm, and when the seasons were about to change. Now we turn on the TV to get the latest predictions – ones that often do not come to pass.

As spring officially arrives, here in the south every cold snap is given a name. I have often wondered the validity of some of the “winters” in the South. There are “winters” when locust, redbud and dogwood trees start to bloom, and when blackberries begin to blossom. There is a whippoorwill winter when whippoorwills can first be heard before the break of dawn. (I love hearing the whippoorwills call out, “whippoorwill” as the last tone of their song lifts skyward.) There is even a “cotton britches winter” which was when the old farmers changed from their wool britches to cotton britches as summer hit full force. 

We just had Dogwood Winter and the proof is in the dogwoods that are almost in full bloom. Blackberry Winter is upon us I guess and the anticipation of ripe berries in July when the June bugs appear makes my mouth water. Moms and kids will brave the chiggers to pick berries and by evening, they will be eating fresh blackberry cobbler with a scoop of vanilla ice cream.

I guess it’s about time to set out those tomatoes but first I have to figure out which winter this is. 

Etch-a-Sketch

The technology deal these days can be a bit overwhelming. Every time I get used to something it changes. It’s no time at all before my computer is bogged down with data and I need more space. External hard drives are uncooperative. Sometimes I hit a button I didn’t even know existed and it changes filter bars or tool bars, or font sizes or adds additional screens or takes them away. It can be unnerving.

Do you remember the childhood mechanical drawing screen in the red frame with white knobs? I couldn’t drive it much better than these newfangled electronics. My brother was a master at drawing intricate detail pictures with the etch-a-sketch. I couldn’t even draw a straight line. He could create pictures of a rodeo rider hanging sideways on a saddle on the back of a bucking bronc, nostrils flaring and mane blowing in the breeze. I would say, “Don’t erase it!” But he did. He just grinned that evil grin, shook the contraption and voilà – it was gone. Magic! The only problem was, if he shook it again, the picture didn’t come back. There was no reset button. 

The other day, I was typing in “Notes” on my iPhone. I deleted a few words and Shazam, it erased something I didn’t want deleted. Now what? There is no redo or undo button. So, what was the solution? That was a no-brainer. I Googled it and clicked on the first link. 

That couldn’t be right! Surely you don’t just shake the phone to reveal the box to select undo typing! I tried it and it was definitely true. The words I erased magically reappeared. 

Sometimes it would be nice to erase some things, and other times it would be nice to undo what we just did. 

…if only it was that easy…. 

The Tooth Fairy Pays Off

Just as I suspected, the Tooth Fairy’s daughter did not get to keep her tooth in her mouth until her birthday. Let me tell you how that all came about.

The Tooth Fairy, in her normal day disguise, and the family went to a birthday party. It was not the party of a six-year-old, but rather, a birthday party for two seventy-year-olds. That makes one hundred and forty years (if you’re counting).  I guess if you can’t choose your own birthday to pull a tooth, a one-hundred-and-forty-year birthday celebration is even better!

Looking in her daughter’s mouth, her mom thought the tooth should be extracted. The new tooth was already shining and trying to push the old tooth out. It was then that the Tooth Fairy (in disguise as the girl’s mother) went into action. After giving her daughter the chance to pull it, the Tooth Fairy took over, reached in and jerked out the offensive ivory. Voilá! It was out in a flash.

Now, as you may have deducted from my last story, I know the Tooth Fairy and she is quite the frugal tight wad, or a conservative spender if you prefer. When the little girl got home, she put the tooth under her pillow. The first thing in the morning, she checked to see if her tooth was missing. It was! And in its place was – guess what? – yep – a one dollar bill. What ever happened to inflation? I guess that’s better than the .25 cents I got as a kid.

That little girl was so excited. When she retold the story to me, she said, “And guess what I got. A ONE – DOLLAR – BILL! I know the Tooth Fairy is real!” You would have thought she was given a million bucks.

I told her to keep the tooth and show it to her mom and dad and grandparents and she just might get some money from them, too. Alas! Her tooth is no more. The Tooth Fairy took it. The Tooth Fairy might be cheap, but she is smart. She knew her daughter might try to cash in again.

So, if any of you have doubts about the reality of the Tooth Fairy, I have on good account from a five-year-old, soon to be six-year-old, that she is real. And that little girl knows, because the Tooth Fairy paid off!

Tooth Fairy

I know the Tooth Fairy and I have proof of her identity. It is my neighbor. Ssshhh! Don’t tell all the toothless little kids and don’t be in a hurry to pull your teeth. The Tooth Fairy doesn’t fall for fairy tales.

One day my neighbor got a phone call. On the other end of the line was a little boy who wanted to talk to the Tooth Fairy and tell her “thank you” for leaving money under his pillow in place of his pulled tooth. My neighbor verified that she was, indeed, the Tooth Fairy. That settles it!

The Tooth Fairy has a little girl whose birthday is coming up real soon. The five-year-old, soon to be six-year-old girl, took it upon herself to plan her own party and make her guest list. She is excited and has planned a great surprise on her special day.

The other day, the little girl said, “Look at my tooth.” It was wiggly. When several people suggested to pull the tooth, she said, “No. You can’t pull it. I’m waiting for my birthday!” I thought she might like an apple to eat, but she won’t fall for that trick. Even yesterday, with her tooth laying sideways, she said, “I’ll take it out on my birthday.” I’m afraid the Tooth Fairy might have other ideas. That tooth might just come out before then. I hope the tooth doesn’t come out at night and get swallowed. Without a tooth to put under her pillow, she might just try to pull her brother’s tooth and use it as a replacement. 

I think the little girl is a bit dubious about the true identity of the Tooth Fairy, and thinks her mom is just her mom. She might think there’s a better chance of getting money for her birthday from guests than from the Tooth Fairy. I think she’s right – I know the Tooth Fairy!

Taps

Raindrops fell and dripped from the edge of the tent that covered the gravesite. Family and friends huddled together under umbrellas, the rain mingling with tears that slid from soulful eyes. Words of comfort were spoken, and the sweet fragrances of prayers rose to the throne of heaven. 

Seven rifles split the silence with the discharge of three volleys of shots that rang out to honor the Veteran whose body laid in the casket on the funeral bier. The melancholy sound of a bugle call resounded as a man in uniform played taps. Chills ran down my spine while the mournful tones resonated then fell in the heavy Southern air.  

With upmost respect and precision, two old soldiers folded the flag that draped the casket. One of them turned on his heels, stepped forward and presented the flag to the family. 

The empty shell of a man was lowered in the ground. In that solemn moment amid many emotions and thoughts, one came to the forefront, “He is not there.” He joined the ranks of others gone before him and reunited with loved ones. He answered the bugle call.

With a final salute, the honor guard spun and marched off the grounds as family and friends joined together to celebrate the life of the old soldier.

Duped

(by a five-year-old)

The five-year-old girl jabbered as we walked into the quilt shop. She looked at all the fabric, touching some of the bright cloth designs as we went down the rows. In her hand was her little pink “bag” with her treasures inside. When we had lunch earlier, she took everything out to show me what she had inside. One of the contents was some money and she was itching to spend it.

She looked around and said, “Where is the kids’ fabric?” I directed her to a little room that contained a selection of children and juvenile prints. She seemed a bit perturbed, “I don’t see any. Those are all big pieces.” Then I understood that she was looking for small pieces of fabric. “Oh, I see. I’ll show you the packets of cut pieces.” We both picked up various packages of colorful fabric already cut into squares. 

Her sweet little face looked sad. “I don’t have enough dollars and cents.” I replied, “Well, maybe somebody would let you have a bit more. Open your purse and let me see how much you have.” She had a two-dollar bill, a one-dollar bill, a penny, nickel, dime and quarter. I looked in my bag and pulled out two five-dollar bills and slid it into hers. “Now you have enough to buy your fabric.” That satisfied her.

We continued to look and she picked up a package of squares, “This is the one I want. It has rainbow colors.” When I asked what she was going to make, she said, “I’m going to make a quilt for my friend in Brazil.”

I went to the checkout counter to pay for my fabric and told the little girl who stood beside me, “You can pay for yours now.” The lady behind the counter smiled and said, “Oh, I thought your grandmother would pay for your fabric.” I said, “I did. I gave her ten dollars to pay for her fabric!” She had already rung it up so I told the little one, “You can pay for the ice cream in a bit.”

The little girl handed me her purchase to put in the back of the car with mine. She said, “I need my bag out of there.” Then she paused and I could see the wheels turning behind that cute face. “No, you can put it back there, too.” So, I did.

About halfway to the ice cream shop, she said, “I can’t buy the ice cream because I can’t get my bag.” Hmmm.. So, that’s the way it was going to be. So, guess who paid for the ice cream. You guessed it – me. Another ten dollars.

As we were leaving the ice cream store, the little girl’s mom said to her daughter, “Thanks for the ice cream.” I looked at her and said, “What? She didn’t buy the ice cream. I did. She duped me out of thirty bucks.”

And it was thirty dollars well spent! Fabric for a little girl to make a quilt that she gave to her aunt (instead of her friend in Brazil), ice cream, ten dollars for her to spend at another time, and time spent with my daughter and two granddaughters – PRICELESS!

After the Ceremony

Six redheaded preacher’s kids peered from the balcony of the Lutheran Church in Livingston. Their eyes were fixed on the bride and groom as the preacher said, “You may kiss the bride,” and then the newlyweds walked back down the aisle and down the steps of the church.

Guests had already gathered for a celebration at the Knapp home on Tin Can Hill. After a meal was shared, and congratulations and well wishes were given, the couple returned to Livingston. There were no rooms available at any of the motels and hotels. 

On a side street, a brightly lettered sign at the bottom of a flight of stairs read, “Rooms.” They enter through the door and were met by a matronly lady. She said,“There is one room left,” to which the groom said, “We’ll take it.” The landlady led them down the narrow hallway to the room, and opened the door. Someone had beat them to the room and was sleeping in the single bed, and it wasn’t Goldilocks. It was a drunk who had found the last bed in town before the paying guests arrived. The lady ran him out, changed the sheets, and left the honeymooners in peace. They locked the door just in case the drunk man returned.

When morning broke, the young couple was off to Yellowstone National Park for their honeymoon. Alas, once again there were no rooms to be found. They made their bed on the ground that night. 

It’s a good thing the uncles weren’t around, or they might have made it a family affair. It was reminiscent of the honeymoon of Uncle Ed and his bride when the family joined the after-wedding-party. Had Uncle Ed been there, he might have put fish heads under their blankets in hopes of enticing a bear just like he did to Jess and Julia forty-one years earlier.

After their short honeymoon, the bride and groom made their way to their first home together – a little log cabin twelve feet square. The tiny honeymoon house was furnished with a bed, flat-topped stove, table, two chairs, a cupboard made of wooden apple boxes, chest of drawers, and a washstand.

Nowadays many couples put more emphasis on a fairy tale wedding with little thought to the marriage that follows. Though the wedding of the newlyweds in this story was not an elaborate one, their marriage lasted until they were parted at death. They put each other first and made a life and family together. The sight of the six redheaded kids in the balcony that July day may have been a premonition of things to come for the couple did indeed have six kids, but they weren’t redheaded.

The Proposal

In the animal world, males often perform rituals or do something flashy to attract females. It’s not much different in the human world. Apparently even the strangest of rituals, such as drinking seven glasses of water, has the power to turn a girl’s head. At least it worked for Buck because after his display she even agreed to a first date. 

By their fourth date, Buck got the nerve to give a kiss to the girl from the prairie. She didn’t knock his teeth out, so he moved closer, put his arm around her, and gave her another kiss.

Buck had another date to keep – with Uncle Sam. The Army made other living arrangements for him. After several months, he was eligible for a furlough. He headed home and reunited with his prairie girl.  They spent some time in the mountains with Buck’s family. 

One of the highlights was the dance at Basin Creek School. When Buck and his date drove down to the school, a chaperone was on board, a wee little chaperone, Buck’s little sister. They all had a great time at the dance but soon the escort became sleepy. Buck grabbed her up and took her to the car. While she slept in the back seat, Buck stole a kiss and proposed to the prairie girl. She said yes! (I wonder if the chaperone was fired)

Buck returned to fulfill his military duty. The next few months their courtship was done by mail. One letter included a diamond ring. 

Buck was discharged in March of 1946. He soon found his way to the Sherod’s where his prairie girl was staying. The two were reunited, but no wedding date had been set. That was about to change. 

Buck tells this story, “One day, about the first of July, we were driving down a rutted lane.  We were sitting close to each other.  I handled the gas petal, and Jean handled the steering wheel. We waved at my Uncle Sid and Byron Grossfield, who were working in a hay field. We passed the bend in the road and the car slid into a rut, missed a bridge, flew off the road and ended up in the dike which carried water around the Gunderson Hill.  Barbara and her date hooked a chain on us to pull us out of the water. Then we had plenty of help. For fifteen miles, there had been no traffic on the road.  However, immediately, Byron and Uncle Sid came to supervise our rescue, and Uncle Barney and a van load of guests drove up the other way.  Uncle Sid remarked that, if it took two people to drive the car, maybe they ought to get married!”

The wedding date was set for the last Friday in July.

Courtship

Buck suffered from a sickness – lovesickness – and it was all because of a girl from the prairie. The first time he saw her, she was in a line of eighth grade graduates. She was the top of her class and Valedictorian of the rural schools. He was intrigued. She might be smart, but could she saddle a horse or milk a cow? 

He expected to see the prairie girl that fall when he started his senior year at Sweet Grass High School. She wasn’t there. Instead, she and her sister went to school in Rappleje. The following year, the sisters started Sweet Grass High. Change was on the horizon and Cupid’s arrow was ready to fly. 

Buck’s sister Barbara, who boarded in town, also attended high school. One weekend when she went home to the mountains forty miles away, she reported that the two Knapp girls (the girls from the prairie), were batching in the other half of the house where she stayed. Buck felt butterflies in his belly. Could it be? The girl from the prairie?

It wasn’t long before Sister Barbara brought the girls to the mountains for the weekend. The Valedictorian tugged at Buck’s heart, but could he win hers? She was a spunky gal with spark and wasn’t afraid to say what was on her mind or to stand up for what she believed. He described her as “something like a spirited bronco.” Not only could she milk a whole string of cows and saddle a horse, but she rode bareback and could fly like the wind.

On the way to an elk hunting trip with a couple of the uncles, Buck stopped in town to visit Sister Barbara – and of course, to get a glimpse of the girl from the prairie. In the house was an old piano. The prairie girl sat at the piano and her fingers flew over the keys. Buck was so impressed, he wanted to do something to get her attention. He showed his great skill of drinking seven glasses of water without stopping. It was then that he discovered her musical skills were not quite what they seemed for her fingers tickled the ivories of a player piano, and she wasn’t the player. It was a long night.

And so began the courtship of the girl from the prairie.