Clothesline

During a recent trip to visit our kids and grandkids, our youngest granddaughter came to the house where we were staying. I wanted to take her on a walk down a path through the woods that led to a little creek. As we started across the yard, something caught her eye.

She asked, “What is that?” I said, “You’ve never seen one of those?” “No.” To her it looked like a strange contraption, and she couldn’t figure what its purpose was. There were two posts shaped like Ts about 20 feet apart with four wires stretched the full length. To someone who had never seen such a thing, I guess it did look a bit odd. I said, “It’s a clothesline.” She responded, “What do you do with it?” I proceeded to explain to her the use of a clothesline and told her about all the years I used one. 

My granddaughter saw something strange she had never seen before, but I saw more than two posts and four wires. I was transported to another time where I saw a bag of clothes pins draped over the wire, and pins clipped to my shirt. I saw stiff frozen blue jeans that hung like wooden planks from the line on a cold winter’s day, the breeze struggling to move the heavy weight. I saw a little boy sucking his thumb and holding onto a scrappy silky pillowcase as he stood under the lines. I saw freshly laundered sheets flapping in the breeze. I saw rows of long rectangular diapers blowing in the wind. I saw my mom as she attached another garment to the line, her apron waving gently, pins stuffed in the pockets, as she reached for another wet shirt. I saw clothing hanging limp and heavy in the hot humid weather when it took all day to dry.

I saw a clothes basket under the clothesline in which a bald-headed baby boy sat playing with some toys. When the clothes were dry, we returned with two baskets, one for him and one for the dried clothes. I folded them as I took each item from the line. By the time we got back to the house, the laundry was done, and I had a happy passenger.

Even if I could describe life without a clothes dryer to a generation who knows nothing different, I would still have a hard time describing sleeping in a bed made up with fresh smelling sheets that have blown in the sunny breeze. Nor could I explain that bleach doesn’t necessarily come in a bottle but rather in a brisk breeze on a cold sunny day, the laundry bleached to perfection.

At one time, the clothesline was a necessity. It sure was nice when we got a dryer in the house especially on rainy cold days. I wasn’t too keen on taking frozen jeans off the line and standing them in a corner of the house to thaw. 

Though dryers are nice to have, I sure would like to have a clothesline again, if only to hang clean sheets along with a few memories of another time.

Where the Magic Lives

My Guest Author, my dad, grew up where the magic lives

The sky was covered with storm clouds. The January day was short without the thick clouds blanketing the afternoon light. Snow had been falling for the last two hours. Now, the wind was whipping it across the long open flat. The horses faced into it. The family huddled in the wagon.  The heavy robes, made from Angora goat hides, failed to keep out all the cold.

At times the wagon trail was wiped out. The Thompson hills had disappeared. The mountains behind them were blotted out. The team moved slowly ahead.  They knew the way even when they could not see the ground ten feet ahead. They stopped at a gate in a barbwire fence which stretched from the hills on the left to the drop off in the canyon on the right.  

One of the boys opened the gate and the team plodded through. They had three hours to go. The light was gone. 

More than the light was gone. The woman fought against a quiet despair made worse by the howling blizzard. Her husband was gone. 

The children were not gone – the wagon was full of her children. The older boys, now grown into men, took turns facing the wind while the others covered themselves the best they could.  

That was the way the day was ending. That was the way the week was ending.  If she had any tears left Guadalupe Brannin did not share them at this time. 

Her husband was dead.  He was gone.  

She had a foreboding of that when he left some weeks earlier to get to a town with some medical help.  He had on his corduroy trousers. The crown of his hat was pushed down in Texas style.  He rode old Bob. He’d been invincible, but now, the invincibility was claimed by a grave on the far side of town thirty miles back and across the river.

“Mama,” one of the boys said, “Mama, we’re in no shape to make it home tonight.” 

 The Grossfield cabin was just up ahead.

“We’d better stop.”

The team pulled off to the right where a log cabin huddled against the rolling hills. A dog barked a welcome from his nest in the barn. The door of the cabin opened. Abram Grossfield looked like an angel from heaven, and the family came in out of the storm.

They would remember that night. They would remember that there was a welcome after a storm, that there was hope after a graveyard. 

The fire was warm. The children were fed. Condolences were given. There was talk of the mountains and the news from the settlement. And the house was warm.

The next morning the storm had eased up. The wagon was loaded. The team plodded up the draw and over the hill that broke down to the Sweet Grass. By then the sky had cleared. From the top of the ridge Guadalupe Brannin looked down into the mountain valley. She saw the log house on the far side of the valley, and the root cellar that the boys had dug into the hillside just in time to hold a wagon load of potatoes for the winters supply. 

She’d been there only two years, but this was home, and home is where the magic lives. 

Time in a Bottle

The little man held the open canteen under the lips of the pipe that rested on the side of the horse trough. Well, actually, the trough was the belly of an old bathtub into which pure, fresh spring water flowed continually.

To him, it wasn’t just a drink of sparkling, clear, cold water from the spring of his youth, it was a lifeline to his past, to his childhood. Just a sip of water not only cooled his parched throat, but it warmed his soul all the way to his toes. He drowned himself in memories – those of his folks, of fun and mischievous times with his sisters, recollections of his grandmother, uncles, aunts, cousins, and neighbors. Thoughts of his brother crashed around him like the unstoppable rush of the tide’s waves releasing its salty spray. As I looked, I even thought I saw a few salty drops leak from his eyes as he was transported back to that day, when at almost six years old, he stood at his brother’s grave. As if to capture time, the little man tightened the lid when the container was full of a wellspring of memories of the many treasures and tragedies of life.

For many years, the number I do not know, he continued the ritual. Once he returned from each trip, the canteen took its place in the door of the refrigerator. Occasionally, he loosened the lid and took a sip, releasing time from the bottle of pure goodness along with a barrage of memories that echoed within his very being. With every trip back to his home place in the mountains, the canteen went along to be replenished and to fill the man of the mountains with all the memories that ran fresh and clear once again.

When the little man left us, memories in tow, he didn’t take the canteen. No, it sat alone in the door of the refrigerator as if lost in time. It is now in the possession of another who treasures the canteen for what it contains and for the memories of the one who religiously bottled it with love.

The green canteen, wrapped in its olive green canvas cover, still holds water from the little man’s last trip to the mountains and place of his birth. My daughter and I dared take a sip of remembrance after the canteen came into my possession. And, do you know what, the magic was still there. As I unscrewed the lid, an explosion of thoughts and reminiscences spewed out. 

Soon, the canteen will be replenished and the memories of life – and death – will continue. After all, the little man no longer needs the canteen that holds time to stir his memories for the water of life flows freely. 

Harvest Dance

My granddad always had a tale and a laugh, but when he pulled out his fiddle and tucked it near his armpit, something special happened. His fingers danced on the strings as he drew the bow and sent old tunes rising to the ceiling. Those same songs had moved the dancing feet of prairie farmers and ranchers years before.

In his “batchin’” days, my granddad roamed the northern prairies and worked the harvest from Montana to Canada. The harvest’s end meant a celebration. It didn’t take long for news to spread throughout the prairies. If there was going to be a dance, that meant they needed a fiddler. When my granddad got the word, it was nothing for my him to pack his fiddle on the back of his saddle and take a one or two day’s horseback ride to visit with neighbors and play for the dance. The house emptied of furniture became the dance floor. Well into the next morning, the dance continued. As neighhbors returned to their homes, the furniture was taken back in the house and it was business as usual. 

My granddad slid into his saddle, bedroll and fiddle tied on the back, with memories stowed away and a few extra dollars tucked in his pocket. He rode off across the prairie with a smile. Another harvest awaited.

How I would have loved to have seen one of those harvest dances!

The Battle of Bunker Hill

by my guest author, my dad, with a story from the mountains

 Sister Ellen was born on the Fourth of July. This gave her an identity with American History. In her imagination she took part in such things as the Battle of Bunker Hill and the Boston Tea Party. Oft times she said, “Let’s play the Revolutionary War.” Being born on the Fourth of July also gave Sister an heritage of independence and revolution. Like the signers of the Declaration of Independence, she fought against the British, and a British person lived at our house.

The Britisher was Grandfather Ward. He carried a lot of fire in his youth, but they let him stay in Great Britain until he was nearly sixty years old.  When he was retired, but not burned out, he came to the States to reclaim them for the British Empire. He didn’t make a success of this which made him touchy. This touched off Sister Ellen.

Grandfather and Ellen had a communication problem. My seven-year-old sister didn’t know that “heather” was a bush.  When Grandfather said, “Sookie, do you see the birds flitting in the heather?”  Sister stared at him with her mouth open. Other words caused similar problems.  She thought that “fetch” was a dog’s name.  When Grandfather said, “Sookie, fetch me that magazine,” she looked at him and growled.  If they were on a collision course through the house, he declared right of way. “Mind the way, Sookie, mind the way.” ometimes he looked at her like she was jolly well daft and said, “Mind what you’re doing, Sookie.  Mind what you’re doing.” Sookie found it difficult to mind her mother, let alone to mind her way or mind her chores.

Grandfather had been a prize fighter back in the days when the art was called fisticuffs and the fighters used bare fists and poised for Currier and Ives pictures. Grandfather used to soak his hands in salt brine to make them tough for the art of fisticuffs. In his younger days boxing matches lasted many rounds and a round didn’t end until it had a knockdown. There was none of this nonsense of ringing a bell before someone was hearing bells.  Grandfather wanted to bare‑fist‑box even though he had reformed and moved to the States.  And then he fell down and broke his leg.  Now he was laid up in the bedroom under the attic.

One afternoon, before Mother left for the garden to pick peas, she gave some last minute instructions.  “Robert,” she told me, “I expect you to mind your sister.” Then she turned to my sister.  “Ellen,” she said, “don’t wake Barbara from her nap, and don’t you children bother your grandfather.” “Oh, we won’t,” Ellen promised. This meant that she wouldn’t bother Barbara because our younger sister acted like a cat with his tail caught in the door when she first woke up. Furthermore, Ellen would be cautious about Grandfather.  However, she had a Fourth of July Spirit that kept her looking for British soldiers to battle.

The attic was strategically located above Grandfather’s bedroom. The attic floor had large cracks in it. The largest ones were over the bed. There was a huge knothole in the floor straight above Grandfather’s snoring nose. The elder Ward complained. He complained because we ate hot bread (biscuits). He griped about children knocking dirt down through cracks in the ceiling over his bed ‑ especially when he was laid up with a broken leg. He complained that he didn’t get the respect an elder was due ‑ although he had a box of apples beside the bed because someone wanted him to recover.

When Mother was in the house we couldn’t play in the attic. She didn’t want us to knock dust down on Grandfather.  Mother didn’t like to hear Grandfather scold.  But now she was outside and Sister said, “Let’s go play like the attic is Bunker Hill.”

“We better not,” I suggested.  “We’ll knock dust on Grandfather.” “He’s asleep,” Ellen replied. “We’ll get caught.” “Mother is down in the garden picking peas and changing the water.  And besides, Mama said you were supposed to mind me.  Now climb the ladder into the attic.”

We walked across the attic floor. Suddenly a voice growled from the lower regions. “Hey, you tots, what are you doing up there?” “Nothing,” came Ellen’s sweet reply. “Nothing,” I added.  “Just playing.” “Your mother wont let you do that. You’re knocking trash down on my covers.” “Let’s have a parade,” Sister suggested. We paraded. “I say, you tykes, quit that bloody tramping.” “We’re marching.” “I’ll pitch you down the stairs.  Do you want me to throw you down?” Sister Ellen whispered. “He can’t get up here. He has a broken leg.” “Watch me jump,” I said.

Then we saw the knothole. We peeked through the knothole. A Britisher eyed the little eyes peering from the ceiling. Ellen remembered what the New Englanders did at Bunker Hill. She scooped up a handful of torn paper bits and dust and handed it to me. “Don’t fire until you see the whites of his eyes,” she said. I saw the whites of his eyes.

The Britisher’s eyes closed. He blew puffs of paper off the end of his nose. “Hey, you scamps!”  he threatened, “I’ll tell your mother, and she’ll bloody well smack your bottoms.” He sounded serious and his face was red ‑ a serious color with Grandfather. Ellen looked at me. Would a Britisher tell on someone who was born on the Fourth of July?  I nodded my head.  I thought he would tell. I looked at Ellen. Would our mother make an appropriate response? “That’s the kind of woman she is,” Sister sighed.

With an ally like that, a Britisher would surely win the Second Battle of Bunker Hill. We crawled out of the attic and made a peace treaty.  When Mother came home we were playing on the front porch.  Grandfather was laying in bed with a smile on his face.  He had fought another round and won the bout.

First Date

It was an exciting weekend. Buck drove his sister back to school from their home in the mountains. The trip to town meant that Buck would see Jeannie, the girl from the prairie who made his eyes light up and his heart flutter. He had been nervous about asking her out on a date. That was understandable considering that he had been warned the girl from the prairie would kick in his radio or knock in his slats if he misbehaved. He finally got the nerve to ask, and she agreed to go on a date with him, and this was the day!

The date with Jeannie promised to be better than the one he had with another of his sister’s friends. For that date, he saved money for a month just to take the girl to the picture show and afterwards a coke at Flasted’s Drug Store. In those days, they had to have escorts. Not only did Buck have to pay for his date, but also the chaperone, his sister. There were a couple more tag-a-long chaperones as well, the girl’s twin brothers. The twins sat with Buck, with his sister and date behind them. He even got to treat all of them for cokes or shakes at the drug store just down the street from the Grand Hotel.

Buck could hardly contain himself as he picked Jean up at Carnegie Library. They went to a movie. She didn’t have twin brothers, so the couple got to sit with each other. Afterwards, they shared a milkshake at Cole’s Drug. Buck was careful to behave. He sure didn’t want her to kick in the radio especially since he had borrowed Ernest’s car. 

The first date was successful, and by their fourth date, he managed to steal a kiss. He didn’t even get his slats knocked in.

Make a Wish

The innocent blonde haired blue eyed little boy held the dandelion puff in is hand. He closed his eyes, stood quiet for a moment, then blew as he whispered, “I wish I could be Spiderman.” Little parachutes of dandelion seeds launched and floated through the air. When the little boy opened his eyes, he saw there were some stubborn dandelion tufts still attached to the stalk. He giggled, crunched them with his fingers, closed his eyes, blew, and made the same wish. He wasn’t taking any chances on not getting his wish! Though he didn’t transform into the superhero, I have no doubt that in his dreams and imagination, he accomplished many great feats of heroism.

As children, we saw the world as a magical place where dreams and wishes could come true. Hopefully we will never outgrow the belief that anything is possible. We need that hope in our world today.

Did you make a wish every time you blew out your birthday candles? Did you make a wish as you threw a coin into a fountain or a wishing well? Did you make a wish when an eyelash rested on your cheek? Did you wish upon a falling star as it streaked across the night sky or when you saw the first star of night?

            Star light, star bright
            First star I see tonight,
            I wish I may, I wish I might
            Have this wish I wish tonight.

When we had chicken for supper, I would “call the wishbone.” It was the choicest piece of the chicken, but it was even more special because whoever got the wishbone got to make the wish. Of course, the sibling who got the other side of the bone to pull usually managed to get to make the wish instead of me.

I don’t know as if any of my childhood wishes ever came true, but that never stopped me from wishing then or now. Who knows, maybe a ladybug will land on me, or I’ll come across a white horse and get to make a wish. Better yet, I might catch even a leprechaun – then I’ll get a wish and a pot of gold.

Tagless is Priceless

Growing up, my clothes were missing one thing – tags. Some girls looked down their nose on those girls that were tagless. 

My mom made all my clothes. My grandmother supplemented with some summer shorts outfits and crocheted vests. By the time hand-me-downs got to me they were pretty much worn-me-outs that were mostly shirts from my brother. Now that’s something to be proud of! I thought I was in “high cotton” when I got my first pair of store-bought pants – straight legged blue jeans that I purchased with money from my first job when a junior in high school.

There were times I was a bit envious of schoolmates who had store bought clothes, though it was a bonus to have a mom who could make something by mixing patterns or by just looking at a picture. I didn’t really gain an appreciation of that until later when I was sewing tagless clothes for my kids. 

I remember some of my favorite pieces of clothing my mother made for me. One was a princess seam taffeta dress.  The fabric was bright blue with splashes of vibrant colors. After it was ironed, the skirt of the dress held its shaped and flowed like waves with every step I took. Even after it was washed, all it took was to be ironed again and it looked like new. When I walked, it made a crisp crinkly sound kind of like fall leaves blowing in the breeze.

Another of my favorite dresses was a long waisted yellowish colored dress with a brown print skirt and rounded collar to match. Mama even made me a black and white animal print bikini with a cut out heart trimmed in red. 

There was a time when most girls wore clothing that was handmade, and most were of better quality than that purchased in stores today.  No price can be placed on the time, sacrifice, and love that went into hours of cutting fabric, and sewing stitches and seams to make those garments.  Though being tagless for the most part is a memory of the past, it is also something else – priceless.

Solar Eclipse

I put on my special glasses and went outside to join the others.  We looked like we had all shopped at the same place. The solar eclipse was certainly not a disappointment though we were just south of the path of totality. I was glad so many people stopped, even if just for a few minutes, to witness such an amazing event, and to most, a once in a lifetime opportunity. 

The total solar eclipse of August 21, 2017 was dubbed the “Great American Eclipse” because the totality was visible within a band that stretched across the contiguous United States from the Pacific to Atlantic coasts. No solar eclipse had been seen from coast to coast since 1918. In January of 1880, a total solar eclipse occurred exclusively over the continental US. 

To me, it was no ordinary happening. In the middle of it all, I had various thoughts to process. One was the brevity of life. Another was that we often let our priorities get overshadowed by things that really don’t matter. I also thought of those bumps in the road – those events that pop into our lives and darken our world for a time. We have all faced dark seasons of life, yet we go forward and once again step into the light. 

Though the eclipse prompted my thoughts that day, it was not the main reason I reflected on those darker times in life. There was another memory that stood foremost on that day. It was the anniversary of my mother’s death. It seemed unreal that she had been gone for 11 years. There were times, and still are, when I thought, “I’ll go ask Mama.” My memories of her were just a small tribute to the woman who sacrificed much to move across the country to a completely different climate and culture, divided her time with husband and 6 kids, managed a household, made our clothes, canned our food, baked our bread, dealt with church folks, took in sewing, opened her home to 30 foster babies in a 6 year time period (give or take a few), moved various times and the list goes on….  

Yes, there was a time of darkness at her death and yes, we moved back into the light – the light of thankfulness that is full of memories of who she was to all of us.

A Dose of Sympathy

I walked into the room and a little voice said, “Hi, Maga.” She got up from the chair, turned and looked at me. Immediately I noticed a red place on her cheek. “What happened? Did you fall?” She said, “Yes. Mama said you had something here for my face.”

When I questioned her about her little accident, her voice got quieter. She wrung her hands together and was quite distracted with the tv and the others in the room looking her way. Every square inch of her wiggled every which direction just like a can of worms as she tried to tell her story. I took her hand and we walked into another room. As I sat down to be on her level, I pulled her close and finally got the story of her misadventure.

She was trying to jump on a little chair that sits by the piano (which she knows not to do). When she fell, she bumped the arm of the chair with her face and then hit the piano bench just barely missing her eye. I think there will be a bruise left behind to go with the swelling and the squinty eye.

When she finished her story, I hugged her tight and said, “What did your mom say I had for your eye?” She couldn’t remember what her mom said, so I said, “Go ask her.” The little girl ran off and was soon back. “Well, what was it?”  “Mama said you would have some sympathy for my eye.” 

Well, her mom was right. I had no trouble giving her some sympathy for her eye even before I knew I had such a magic potion. A dose of sympathy sure goes a long way! 

After another big hug and a mug of hot chocolate with two big marshmallows, she was off again.