The Old Homestead

Story inspired by an old, abandoned Michigan homestead

Faded curtains flapped in the breeze through broken panes of glass.  I saw no other movement in the big old house. It stood empty except for the memories that lingered there. My mind wandered as I envisioned another time when laughter tickled the rafters and sweet aromas drifted from the cook stove, a time when hopes and dreams were alive.  

The old shed that stood nearby was shy a few boards while others just barely hung on by rusty nails.  Rotting shingles hung precariously from the edge of the roof. Other outbuildings threatened to lean all the way to ground as they rotted into the soil. Stones lined the opening to the cellar, now forgotten as a larder for the family that once lived in the big house. Fields, long since plowed and seeded, produced a yield of briars and weeds among patches of broom straw waving in the breeze. Snow lay in dark recesses protected from the warming sun. A thin layer of translucent clouds hung like sheer curtains beneath billowing gray clouds drifting slowly across the sky. A gust of wind parted the clouds briefly to reveal a canopy of blue before closing tight again.  

As the wind blew across the open fields, I heard a door slam. The sounds of hurried footsteps echoed on the floor of the porch. The door creaked as it opened and slammed again. Voices mingled with sounds of running feet. Children’s laughter floated on the breeze. The humming engine of a tractor making its round in the field joined the sounds of the family. Little ones played in the yard as the lady of the house took towels and freshly laundered bedsheets from the clothesline. She folded them, placed them in a basket that she hoisted on her hip, and walked back to the house. Some children headed to the chicken house to gather eggs. The door of the coop slammed and the hens bawked in protest as their nests were disturbed. Two older boys strolled to the barn to do the evening milking. Metallic cow bells clanked as the milk cows headed toward their stanchions to be relieved of their excess baggage. The evening sun faded and cast long golden rays on the house. Dark shadows from scattered trees loomed large across the countryside.  

The sound of a bell on the back porch clanged as the clapper on the string was jerked back and forth.  Kids ran to the back of the house and up the steps. Boys emerged from the barn with full buckets of milk that sloshed and threatened to spill over the sides. The tractor spit and sputtered and came to a stop with one last lingering groan. Soon the sound of work boots could be heard on the wooden planks of the porch.  

Light streamed from the kitchen window. Everything got quiet just briefly before the sounds of laughter, light bantering, and clanging forks escaped the walls. Fried chicken, mashed potatoes, gravy, canned beans and biscuits with homemade butter and jam were placed on the table among all the plates. Egg custard sat cooling on the windowsill. There was lots of chatter. Kids talked about their day of adventure and told on their siblings for their misdeeds. The father talked with the older boys and gave instructions concerning the farm equipment, fields and the cows. The mother talked of the garden spot that needed to be plowed so it would be ready for the seeds as soon as the soil warmed up a bit more. 

Though I had envisioned life on the old farm, the abandoned homestead lay eerily quiet with an occasional creak and crack from the forsaken walls and floors of the old house. I took in the scene before me and wondered what had happened to this family. What had driven them from their home? The dad didn’t come in from the fields one day. He left his widow with all those kids. At least the bigger kids were able to continue to take care of the crops and livestock for a while. It wasn’t long before the kids had grown. They left one by one and found a new life in the big city. The mom could no longer care for the place nor did she have the heart to do so. She ended up in town in a home for the elderly. Now she was gone, too. The old homestead only lived in the memories of the kids who had grown up there. An old neighbor would reminisce from time to time and mention the family that had once lived down the road.

 As we turned around the bend, I heard a door slam one last time. I turned back for a final look. Through the dust I saw a fleeting shadow. A light flickered in the window just briefly – and then it was gone.  

Stranded in Time

Daddy had been told to not be surprised if Uncle Rube didn’t know him. The old gentleman had suffered a stroke that affected his memory.  As we walked into the room at the Pioneer Home, Uncle Rube looked up. He took one look at Daddy, stood to his feet, raised his hand, pointed his finger and said, “Th-th-that d-d-danged sp-sp-spotted horse!” Spot, the spotted horse, had stepped on his foot thirty years earlier and left Rube’s big toenail hanging by a sliver. More than once, Daddy and Rube had shared that memory. 

Even without the stroke, Uncle Rube was considered slow or “retarded”. His drawn, drooping face looked much like I had remembered. Though Uncle Rube lived in a man-sized body, he was just a boy. Just one look at him turned back the hands of time to 1895 when he was a boy of five years old.

Four covered wagons drawn by four-horse teams, and a spring wagon pulled by a team of mules topped Apache Hill. Guadalupe turned around for one last glimpse, but the ranch along Sapillo Creek had already disappeared from view.  Eight children were born to the family in the little log cabin in the valley they left behind. Guadalupe carried those memories and many more with her as the wagons turned toward Montana Territory that morning of May 30, 1895. 

The older boys had gone on ahead with the herd of goats, burros and horses. Guadalupe, her husband, their eleven children, the youngest six months old, a son-in-law, and one-month old granddaughter, were joined by other friends who traveled with them. Little Rube rode in the wagons with the other small children.

The route from New Mexico Territory led them into Arizona and northward through Utah. A year before, Guadalupe had a dream of a long hard trip. As they approached Woodruff, Arizona, Guadalupe described that very town just as she had seen it in her dream, though she had never been there. 

It was dry and hot. Water was scarce. Drinking from the Little Colorado River, the boys tried the strain water through their teeth. They ran their finger around their gums to remove the silt. Even when they tried to filter the water through a flour sack, it did little good. 

Near Flagstaff, most of the family came down with typhoid fever after drinking contaminated well water. The oldest daughter became deathly sick. Her milk dried up and she was not able to nurse her baby. Guadalupe not only tended to the sick and nursed her own little girl, but she also shared her supply of breast milk with her granddaughter.

Little Rube had the most severe case of typhoid fever and developed double pneumonia. Rube’s father had a doctor from Flagstaff come to see the little boy. His high fevers caused brain damage, affected his speech, and left him handicapped with partial paralysis, his legs becoming so weak, his sister two years his senior had to teach him to walk again. Rube did survive. His family nurtured him, and his brothers gave him some good-natured ribbing. He never went to school or learned to read and write, but he did many of the chores, rescued his chickens from the cook, and knew how to smoke a pipe.

Uncle Rube lived to the ripe age of eight-one. To some, he was a giant among men but on the inside, he was a five-year-old little boy who wore overalls.

Melville Derby

story by Guest Author, my dad

Yesterday (Saturday) I watched the tail end of the Kentucky Derby. I was pleased to see the super bred, expensive, racehorses beaten by the offspring of an $8,000 mare and a $2,500 stallion. It reminded me of the Melville Derby at rodeo time in the 1930’s when the work horse from Ma Franklin’s rake team beat the well promoted Thoroughbred and Standard Bred horses from the Melville area Dude Ranchers.

The area Dude Ranchers had invested in some well-blooded horses in order to beat one another in the annual rodeo races. Thoroughbred and Standard Bred horses were famed and trained to develop their racing ability. Mrs. Franklin’s horse was bred as a draft horse. He was a valuable worker on a hay ranch. He was trained to obey “Gettup and Whoa” when on the tongue of a wagon or hay rake. But his heart was in beating his teammate to the oat box at the barn. The farm hands trained him for that, but they were so impressed with his ability that, CAN YOU IMAGINE IT, they entered their Dark Horse in the Melville Derby. And he won going away.

Fortunately the rider got him turned at the end of the track and he headed back to the rodeo stands and not to the can of oats in a barn a mile and a half away.

Road to Freedom

A faint sound interrupted the silence as branches snapped back in place as if they had been pulled like a rubber band and released. Quick footsteps ran along the trail that wound through the woods. As they neared the edge of the trees, the sound stopped suddenly, and everything was still and quiet.

In the black of night, the figure of a man in shabby clothes and worn-out shoes cautiously emerged from the trees and bushes. If he read the signs right, it was safe. Looking around, he was on the run again in case unwanted eyes had followed his movements. He made his way to a safehouse where he was given a change of clothes before continuing his journey north. With his slave garments cast aside, he was given further instructions.

The way to freedom was a long, dangerous, and arduous road. The majority of those seeking freedom were uneducated and illiterate. They communicated by word of mouth and signs. 

An Underground Railroad Quilt Code was put in place as a sign to guide fugitives to freedom. Various blocks were used, each sending a secret message. There might be a quilt draped over a porch railing, a portion of one hanging like a flag, or even a quilt block design drawn in the dirt. A block painted on a wagon might indicate there was a secret compartment for them to hide and be transported to another location.

Each diagram had a different code to indicate if it was safe to travel, when to pack, and where to go. Some blocks served as a compass, indicating the direction they needed to go. Some quilt patterns told slaves to continue north into Canada. Others let them know where the safehouses were.

A Wagon Wheel quilt pattern signaled slaves to pack provisions for their journey. They had very few belongings and gathered only the things necessary for survival.

The Carpenter’s Wheel design indicated it was time to go. To the slaves, the master carpenter was Christ. Slaves sang songs while working in the fields not only to worship, but also to send messages. “Swing Low, Sweet Chariot”, referred to the wagon wheel, which indicated it was time to travel. Another song used to give them the signal to go was “Steal Away.” The Carpenters Wheel pattern as well as songs they sang encouraged the slaves to “run with faith” to the northwest. Slave owners thought they sang of going to heaven, but the soulful, sometimes sorrowful, rhythmic Negro Spirituals urged their people to go northwest. The road to freedom usually took them through Cleveland, Ohio, which was the main crossroad.

The Bear’s Paw pattern let the slaves know to follow paths of the bears or other animals. The travelers followed the trails that led through the mountains. They were not straight, but crooked paths, that led to water and safety. As most escapes took place in the time of the spring rains, it was easier to follow a bear’s paw trail as prints were left in the soft damp soil.

Along the various routes, Athens, Ohio, was a pivotal stop on the Underground Railroad. Several homes in the area were used to hide slaves making their way north to freedom. According to family history, Thomas Brewer and his wife, my 3rd great grandparents, took part in this Underground Railroad movement. He was an advocate for the enslaved and offered aid on the slaves’ road to freedom. 

Here is a link to quilt block patterns, and their meanings, that served as a map to guide slaves to and through the Underground Railroad: 

https://page.reallygoodstuff.com/pdfs/154227.pdf  

I made this quilted table runner as a gift for friends who extended the hand of hospitality and provided us a place to stay for the night. The center block is the Carpenter’s Wheel. The star that is split on either side is what I call the Native Star, inspired by the Lakota Indian Quilt Exhibit I visited several years ago. Both of these designs represent the oppressed who sought freedom. 

Fragrance of Friends

Forrest Gump said, “Life is like a box of chocolates – you never know what you’re gonna get.”  Well, I say, “friends are like a box of chocolates.”  

My sister would poke a hole or take a bite out of each chocolate so she could pick the one she wanted to eat.  She may have missed out on something good by not sampling those chocolates. 

Just like those chocolates, friends are diverse.  Some may be a bit nutty – some a bit fruity – some rich – some not as sweet– some overwhelming.  Friends come in different shapes and sizes, of different ages and various characteristics.  They each offer a different type of friendship and meet a different need in our lives. 

From an acquaintance to a “kindred spirit” friend, they each have a different aroma.

My mom and her sister were best friends. They were fifteen months apart. My mom took it upon herself to care for her baby sister who thought the sun rose and set on her big sister. Each day when my mom came home from school, she taught her sister what she had learned in class. She continued to nurture her sister and, in many ways, took the place of their mother. 

The girls went to school together, rode horse back together, killed rattlesnakes together, went to normal school for their teaching degree together, cried together and laughed together. The bond these sisters shared was more binding than blood. 

They were the best of friends, and what a sweet fragrance that was!

Guadalupe’s Proverb

This is a tribute to the women who helped shape the West.

A wife of good character who can find?  She is worth more than all the
 gold or silver one can mine.  Her husband has full confidence in her
 and leaves everything to her care while he’s away.
  She brings him good, not harm, all of his life. 
 She tans the hides to make clothing for her children.  She is like the
traveling supply trains that bring goods and food to her family.
She is up before daylight preparing the day’s meals of beans and
hot tortillas.  She always has plenty to share with the stranger that comes
 to her door.  
She sees a good pony and buys it with the money she’s earned
sewing garments.  She sets about her work with a smile on
her face and a Spanish song on her lips.  Her arms and back are strong
for the day’s work.  She is last to lie down at night and her
lamp stays lit as she protects her family.  She opens her home to
those in need and lends an ear to her neighbor.
When the snows come, she does not fear, for her home is filled
with warmth.  She makes quilts from patched clothing for 
her beds.  The family is always dressed presentably before others.
Her husband is respected in the community.  He serves with the
judges and county leaders.  She is clothed with strength and dignity.
She laughs at days to come and does not dwell on disappointments
of the past.  She speaks words of wisdom and instructs her
children to be respectable citizens.  She watches over the
affairs of her household and always lends a hand to others.
Her children and grandchildren call her blessed.
Her husband thanks her for being his faithful companion.
Many women have done well, but Granny Brannin exceeds
them all.  Pretty words can be misleading, and beauty
can be deceiving.  But a woman who reveres the Lord and leads her 
children in the way of truth – 
She is to be held in the highest respect.
Give her the reward she has earned.  Let the life and
testimony she has lived bring honor to her memory.
May the gift of her heritage be passed on to her
future generations.

sa

The Mouse Club

On October 3, 1955, Disney’s Mickey Mouse Club debuted on ABC. 

Before that, another Mouse Club ruled the halls of Sweet Grass High School. It was a very exclusive group – girls only – that had one strict requirement: you could not be afraid of mice, living or dead.

B J was not afraid of mice and neither were her friends, sisters Jean and Betty. That was the extent of the membership of their club.

B J grew up handling mice. When just a youngster, her great uncles trapped mice to give to B J for her cat. There was a catch – a price to be paid. The uncles said, “Go say, ‘damn the old ladies’, and we will give you a mouse.” B J walked out to where the “old ladies” were and paid her dues. True to their word, the uncles rewarded her a dead mouse for her cat.

When she started school, she got a live mouse and gently put it in a match box and took it to school. She must have been proud when she placed the little box on the teacher’s desk. The teacher slid back the box top and out jumped the mouse. She was not impressed, nor did she share B J’s fascination with mice. I do not know if they had Show and Tell that day, but I am sure it was Show and Yell!

The mouse-capades continued in high school when B J was joined by her two accomplices. A classmate of the three girl Mouse Club was deathly afraid of mice. How silly! The girl might as well have shouted a dare from the top of her lungs. Her fear of mice was the only fuel needed for the Mouse Club to jump into action. The plan was in place.

After capturing an unsuspecting furry creature to be offered as a gift, it was packaged up. It was suggested by one source that some of the boys might have taken part in the caper. This account was given by one of the Mouse Club members in later years who said they gave the mouse to the boys who did the deed. That is not the way I previously heard the mouse tale. I tend to think that version of the story was merely a diversion in an attempt to deflect blame.

The story as told to me through the years was that the club members put the mouse in the girl’s locker. When the girl opened her locker and looked in the box, she let out a shriek, you know, like a loud resounding scream. The principal got involved and accused the boys of the dastardly deed.

A few years ago, the sister of one of the Mouse Club members snitched to the mouse recipient and revealed the source of the girl’s teenage trauma. It might not have been the best gift, but it’s the thought that counts. Hmmm, maybe that’s not always the case. 

The Mouse Club looks like they might be formulating another plan

Release the Secret Weapon

One thing plentiful at Ward & Parker Sawmill was sawdust. It floated in their summer iced drinks, served as a burial ground for the bantam hen and Sister Ellen’s doll, insulated the icehouse, and tracked through the house and into the attic. 

There was also a secret purpose for sawdust. It was a weapon – arsenal for old grumpy Englishmen. Not everyone knew how to unleash the secret weapon, but Sister Ellen did. She waited for just the opportune moment to discharge the artillery.

The suitable time arose after the kids’ grandfather arrived from across the big water. He called Sister Ellen “Sookie” and commanded her to “do this” or “do that”, which Sister Ellen did not take kindly to. Grandfather fell and broke his leg which made him grumpier than his usual grumpiness. He stayed in the bedroom that had the attic overhead.

When the kids’ mama went to the garden, she gave them instructions. Sister Ellen’s brother was to mind his big sister and she was not to bother their grandfather. That was a prescription for disaster and spelled T-R-O-U-B-L-E. 

It was not long before Sister Ellen formulated her plan. The kids crept up the attic steps and peeked through the knothole above Grandfather’s bed. He grumbled, “What are you kids doing up there?” “Nothing.” Sister Ellen commanded her brother to stomp when he walked. Hadn’t his mother told him to mind his sister? The two made quite a racket to which Grandfather complained even louder. 

Now in the attic was, you guessed it, bits of sawdust that was strategically located near the knot hole along with regular dust and bits of paper. Somehow, the tiny missiles made their way through the hole and onto a red-faced British grandfather. He hollered and yelled and threatened to tell their mother. Would he do that? 

They slithered down the steps and made peace. When their mother came in, they were playing calmly on the front porch. Grandfather lay content on his bed with a little smile on his face. Both opposing sides thought they won that battle, and I guess maybe they did, but the war was not over yet.

Margueritte Went A-Courtin’

There was a song we sung when I was a kid:

Froggy went a-courtin’ and he did ride, M-hm M-hm
Froggy went a-courtin’ and he did ride, M-hm M-hm
Froggy went a-courtin’ and he did ride,
Sword and pistol by his side, M-hm, M-hm

He rode up to Miss Mousie’s door, M-hm, M-hm
He rode up to Miss Mousie’s door, M-hm, M-hm
He rode up to Miss Mousie’s door,
where he’d often been before, M-hm, M-hm

He said Miss Mousie will you marry me, M-hm, M-hm
He said Miss Mousie will you marry me, M-hm, M-hm
He said Miss Mousie will you marry me,
And how happy we will be, M-hm, M-hm.

I don’t know if my grandmother knew that tune or not, but she knew something about courtin’.

Margueritte was said to be a tremendous horsewoman. She could ride with the best and handle a team like nobody’s business. When she set eyes on the man of her dreams, she was no less determined and boldly made her move.

The man she set her sights on was 9 years her senior. He had a batchin’ partner, John. The two guys had traveled the prairies working the harvests from Montana into Canada. Margueritte thought it was about time he settled down.

She showed up at their house on the prairie from time to time. One day when she came to their door it was suppertime. The guys used a pie plate as a lid. That night they had boiled potatoes for supper. Bee drained the taters and flipped them out on the pie pan lid on the table. 

Margueritte looked a bit surprised. That made her determined to tame that unrefined wanderer. He needed a wife! She lassoed him and Bee’s wandering days came to an end. The two were married in the fall of ’26.

And so began another series of adventures….

O Brother!

I grew up with three brothers all older than me. I have often wondered how any of us ever survived childhood and how my mother survived motherhood. Recently after hearing my brothers tell wild tales I had never heard, I am even more convinced that their survival is a miracle of miracles.

Now understand that I cannot give you their names because I am sure there are still authorities seeking restitution for misdeeds done by the culprits. For the purpose of this story the brothers will be referred to as Brother 1, 2, and 3.

When the phone rang at our house, Mama would cringe. She must have been relieved when the caller turned out to be someone who called for the preacher to come visit a family member who was on their deathbed or to make a trip to the jail to council a neighbor’s kid. But, alas, that was not always the case.

Those boys got into enough trouble for all of us. Brother 3 got cigarettes from a friend who snitched them from his mama, and he was only six years old. Brother 3’s big Brother 1 even gave him the nub ends of the cigarettes he got from I-don’t-want-to-know-who. One day, Mama caught Brother 3 crawling under the house with matches to smoke his contraband and sent Daddy after him. That was aside from him smoking rabbit tobacco in his homemade corncob pipe when he made me promise not to tell on him. He must have quite grown up by then because he was all of seven.

At one of the nearby businesses that was plagued with mischievous kids, at least until the preacher moved, the boys had their fill of soda pop. They would sneak into the business after hours and open the hinged top of the chest coke machine to expose the suspended bottles hanging by their necks (which is what the owners would like to have done to the kids). Instead of putting their money into the coin slot and making their selection, they proceeded to pop the tops of the ice cold sodas and slurp out the contents with their paper straws. When the owner went to work the next morning and got his morning soda the bottles were all empty. There was little question as to who was responsible, or irresponsible, but nothing could be proven if they weren’t caught red-handed.

Some of their shenanigans were harmless enough such as playing “pocketbook.” One time, a car stopped as the driver eyed the pocketbook. When the boys tried to reel it in, the pocketbook got lodged on the railroad track. The driver of the car, the Sheriff, got out and took chase. The boys escaped. Other escapades included climbing on the train when it stopped by the cotton gin and riding it to a neighboring town. They had to wait for the return train to make their way home again.  When Brother 2 was contacted to validate these claims, he verified that this was indeed true. Brother 1 seemed very familiar with the story and I believe him to be the ringleader. (Brother 1 is also the one responsible for my broken collar bone.)

Other misdeeds were vandalism, like when they the broke the windows out of the back of one of the shops. Brother 2 said, “We got our butts beat.” Other neighborhood boys were involved, and each family had to pay for the windows to be replaced.

As several of us listened to their tales, Sister 2 said, “Why didn’t they run us out of town?” Brother 3’s response was a classic, “We were preacher’s kids.” There was a short pause and he giggled, “It was hard to get a preacher.”

Now we know!

These tales were just a drop in bucket that was filled with stolen watermelons, a record sized big snake, broom straw lit on fire, pigs, picked tulips, burning bags of manure, rocks, phone calls, kids in trunks to sneak into drive-in movies, etc., and some tales you’ll never know.