The First of Maud, But Not the Last

Maud is my FIRST guest author

If you have been following Grandma’s blog posts or any of her social media posts you may have possibly ran across the name of Maud. Well, that’s me. I am the fluffer of bunnies, the burping master, and the sweetest granddaughter ever. (Grandma may not agree, but the rest of the world does).

Grandma asked me to be a guest writer on her blog and I was hesitant to say yes, but oh so thrilled at the same time. I am not going to promise grammatically correct sentences, or eloquent language, but I hope that after you read this you will appreciate the many firsts that happen in life. When Grandma asked me to write I nagged her about what I would write about. I am the type of person who needs a template to write anything, (thank you school), so when Grandma said to write about whatever I wanted, my head spinned twenty different ways. But, as I was sitting on the plane towards Atlanta my mind narrowed its thoughts down to what this trip was about for me.

My mind came up with, Firsts. This was my very first trip travelling with just me and Grandma. This was my very first trip going to Glacier National Park. This was my very first time in Polebridge, MT and having their cinnamon rolls. This was my very first time seeing mountain goats. This was my very first time seeing a moose. This was my very first time travelling down Swingley Road. This was my very first time meeting Dick Rath and staying at his cabin. This was my very first time hiking down to the river at Natural Bridge State Park. This was my very first time going through Bynum, MT, my first time in Choteau, MT, and my very first time at Madison Buffalo Jump. This was my first time going to eat supper at the Sweet Grass Ranch and sharing some sweet company with the Carroccias and the Dringmans. I heard stories about people I had never met and people that I loved, and some stories were new to me and even to Grandma.

Let me tell you, these firsts were amazing and absolutely incredible. I am forever thankful to the lady that brought me here and helped me experience all these firsts. I am forever thankful for the lady that spent a lot of these firsts by my side.

Maud with her brother and Daddy Buck

But, this was also my very first time in Montana without Daddy Buck. This was my very first time without Daveen opening her door and saying, “Oh! Hello! Welcome!” This was my very first time going to Aunt Barabara’s house and not seeing Uncle Ralph sitting at the kitchen table ready to answer all of the questions we had for him. This was my very first time going to look at houses and property for my grandma and grandpa to possibly live. This trip full of many, “very firsts” was also very hard. This trip gave me lots of incredible firsts, and also some tough firsts, but this trip also showed me that my family would not have ended up where they are now without both good and bad firsts. Stanton and Guadalupe had to FIRST leave New Mexico to end up in Montana. The uncles had to FIRST build the ranch before they could run it. Poppy had to FIRST go to Canada before he ended up in Big Timber, MT. Aunt Barbara had to FIRST invite Jean to her house for Buck and Jean to meet. Daddy Buck had to FIRST ask Grandma Buck to marry him before they started their adventure. They both had to leave Montana for the FIRST time to end up in Georgia. They had to have five kids FIRST before they had Grandma. Daddy Buck and family would live in Athens, GA FIRST before they moved to LaFayette, GA. Grandma and Puppa had to meet FIRST before they had my dad. Mom had to have her FIRST boyfriend before she knew dad was the one. My parents had Jess FIRST before they had their favorite daughter. I had to go on my FIRST trip to Montana in 2003 to absolutely fall in love with the land and the people. I had to ask Grandma FIRST to go on this trip (and she had to FIRST say yes).

Maud and her brother

The many firsts I have experienced on this trip have led to a stronger passion and love for The Last Best Place. I felt like I have grown closer to my family, to the people who used to live there and live here now, and to my cowgirl Grandma. So, I say all of this to say, the firsts in your life are important. The best firsts, and the worst firsts, and all of the in- between firsts lead you to where you are and where you want to go. Embrace those firsts in the best way that you can, because those firsts lead to stories told in the car on the way to East Glacier. Right, Grandma? 

Side Note: I think I am now Grandma’s favorite. There’s a FIRST for everything, right? Maud

                                       me & Maud

Rock Shop

When I was a kid, one of my favorite places to stop while traveling across the country was a rock shop. There was usually just an old building or a rickety shack that had a hand made sign out front. It seems that the best shops were those in the middle of nowhere. Oh wait, we were always in the middle of nowhere. Daddy would pull in and we would hop out of the car. Inside, there were bins and bins of rocks of all kinds and colors. The more expensive rocks were kept in a glass case. Some shops had racks of stones made into jewelry. I would turn the racks slowly and look at the earrings and necklaces. My favorites were those made out of moss agates. It was hard to choose which rocks and stones I wanted to buy with the few coins in my pocket but every time I left the rock shop, my little bag would be full.

There were times we stopped at a roadside stand where we could “mine” for sapphires, garnets or other gems. We would buy a bag of dirt that had been taken from a mine. We were guaranteed to find some kind of gem. Sapphire dirt was more expensive. Sometimes we could even find Yogo Sapphire dirt. I didn’t have enough money for that.

When my kids came along, I wanted them to have the opportunity to experience rock shops, too. It seems that the wayside rock shops are not as easy to be found now.

The other day, Maud and I drove through the little Montana town of Bynum. The population of Bynum is 37, excluding dogs and dinosaurs. Yes, it is dinosaur country. It doesn’t take but a few seconds to drive through Bynum. As I drove, I saw an old building that looked like a church up ahead. When I got closer I said, “I have to stop here.” I wheeled in to the gravel lot that stuck half way out on the side street and skidded to a stop. There was a sign on the side of the building that said, “Trex Agate Shop, Since 1937.” Two words caught my eye, Trex and Agate. Dinosaurs and stones!

We walked in the door of the shop and there were rocks – bins of rocks. There were fossils, bones and skeletons. There were agates, and there were bags of dirt – garnet dirt and sapphire dirt. There were glass cases with the more expensive stones. Inside the cases was jewelry of all kinds. Turquoise necklaces with exquisite artistic design in silver were in one case, agates in another. On the tops of the glass cases were little racks of jewelry. I guess you know what I did. I went over and turned the racks slowly to look at the earrings and necklaces made from the agates and precious stones.

We were greeted by an elderly gentleman who truly loves his job. I asked about the building. It had been a church and then a school. The building had stood there for 103 years. It got its first inside bathroom after 102 years. Yep, it has only had inside plumbing for 1 year. We talked with the man for a while. He is a genuine asset to the little shop and to the community. We left the shop reluctantly but we had a bag of treasures that included a tiger’s eye and a bag of sapphire dirt.

As I walked out the door my little bag was full. I pulled the strings tight on my little bag of memories. Maud & Me had a good day!

Mountain Stream

I rested by the mountain stream
As it tumbled along the way;
From where it came or where it went
Of that I could not say.

I saw more than waters
Racing toward the sea;
I saw a picture of life.
I saw a picture of me.

I saw the present come face to face
With the memories of my past;
Together they hurried forward
To the future wide and vast.

There was excitement in the rapids,
Life in merging streams.
Passion was in the calming pools,
Tumbling stones turned into dreams.

It flowed through mountain passes,
Cut through canyons steep.
Meandered through the valley
Until it merged with waters deep.

Gates of the Mountains

with Maud & Me

Gates of the Mountains means more to me than just a fascinating boat tour that encompasses Lewis & Clark history, Indian history, commemoration of beyond brave fire fighters of the Mann Gulch fire, and unique geology. To me it also includes family history.

It was in this area, just a few short miles away, that two of my great great aunts and uncles ran the tollgate through the mountains in Prickly Pear Valley. The road was built on the route of an ancient Indian trail. It was initially constructed in 1865 but purchased by King & Gillette the following year. The tollgate was opened to fund and maintain the road. It became a gate through the mountains.

Floating on the Missouri River through the canyon is breathtaking. I try to imagine the first time those in the Lewis & Clark expedition saw that view. We walked in the area in which they camped. The formations along the canyon walls are much the same as they were all those years ago. Caves and holes are exposed in the limestone cliffs. Some of the strata seen in the walls are horizontal. Other areas of the walls were thrust into an almost vertical position due to pressure from lava beneath. We saw Indian hieroglyphics on the canyon wall, bald eagles on trees near the top of the canyon, unique formations in the shapes of animals, an osprey nest atop an 800 foot pinnacle, and the site of the Mann Gulch Fire. Our river guide was very informative of the history of the area.

Hieroglyphics

Later that afternoon, we took Sieben Road and drove through Prickly Pear Valley to Silver City, the little place where my grandmother was born. We made a couple of photo stops through the valley where it is guessed the location of the tollgate stood. The valley is absolutely gorgeous. It was described in The Montana Post,

“All new comers to the Territory, via Benton, remark upon the surpassing beauty of the Little Prickly Pear Canyon, that enchanted spot, so long one of nature’s inner temples, and but recently entered by man. To the admiration which the scenery calls forth is added the pleasurable surprise which is elicited by finding it after traveling over one hundred miles of so uninteresting a wagon tract as the Benton road. At a time when they expected it not they seem to have “passed through Switzerland”, as some of them have pointedly expressed it. Gibson’s ranch at its mouth a combination of neatness and good cheer offers a convenient stopping place for all who would enjoy the pleasure of hunting and fishing amidst the grand towers and groves of this mountain nook.”

That is the same scenery Maud & Me saw. We stopped alongside the road and took some pictures of the canyon walls and scenery all around. Thinking back to another time, we could almost hear the echoes of freight wagons rolling through the valley and see passengers in coaches waving as they passed by on their way to Helena. I felt the same sentiments as those from years ago as given in The Montana Post article. Much as they looked back then, cliffs rise from the valley floor reaching for the sky. The road runs along the river that sings a mountain song as it leaps from rock to rock. The road rises out of the valley into flat land with expansive views in all directions. I can picture the Brannin exodus from New Mexico coming to an end as wagons, herds of goats, and other stock arrive at their Montana destination where my grandmother and another great uncle would be born. It was special to be able to share that vision and this fascinating land with Maud.

Near Silver City, Montana after coming out of Prickly Pear Valley

Traveling with Maud

Maud is a young lady between the ages of 4 and 45, depending on her mood for that particular moment in time. One moment she is driven by emotion and the beauty of the moment or sentimental memories, tears dripping off her face. The next moment she is singing a loud unmelodious song that may or may not be made-up words. Another moment she wants her picture taken making victory signs with her two fingers, head cocked to the side, one leg in the air and her tongue stuck out. Yet another moment she may let out a forever burp. My friend that began traveling with us, Sanity, slips out the back door of the car and threatens to leave the scene.

Maud has her own language – one that I do not understand, nor do I really want to understand. She may use antonyms or her own form of neologism.

Here are some of them along with Maud’s definitions:
wicked –  awesome/cool
broski – friend/pal (or some random stranger on a motorcycle)
narsty – nasty/gross (also used when she says, “I fluffed a bunny”)
rad – super dope
dope – cool/awesome (see wicked)
gucci – good
tendy – sweet, but like super sweet
send it – let’s go
‘bout to go ham – go crazy
let’s kick it – let’s go
bet ! – okay, let’s do it!

Sometimes I just have to use my imagination to interpret what comes out of her mouth. I wonder if my friend Sanity will ever return!

June 2019

Maud & Me

It’s the Little Things

Bowman Lake

The past few days have been busy. We landed in Kalispell and hit the ground running. Within two hours our 4-wheel drive SUV had entered Glacier National Park and was dodging rocks and ruts on back roads. We have seen indescribable beauty and experienced new adventures. “Maud & Me” have been inspired by God’s grand creation but have also been renewed in spirit by the little things.

Just in the first part of our trip Maud was handed a new ticket on our first flight that put our seats next to one another; the pilot stopped and chatted with us several minutes about where we were going and what we doing; on the second flight a lady gave up her seat so a couple could sit with each other and though she didn’t know it at the time, they just happened to be newlyweds.

When we entered the park, I asked the attendant, at Maud’s suggestion, about a senior pass. I now am the proud cardholder of my very own Lifetime Senior Pass into all National Parks & National Monuments. That includes anyone who is in my vehicle. So be nice to me!

Polebridge, Montana

Our destination for that afternoon was Polebridge, Montana. We went into the Polebridge Mercantile and got a few pastries. Let me tell you, those are some of the best cinnamon rolls I’ve had, and they are huge! Maud was going to eat just a bite of her cinnamon roll, but she ate it all (with a little help from me). We proceeded on to Bowman Lake. When we arrived, a wedding was about to take place, so we crashed a wedding! On our way back to Polebridge to get Maud another cinnamon roll, we came across a couple pulled off the side of the road in the middle of nowhere. They had a couple of chairs set up and were getting a table so they could have their supper.

We have passed at least two Plein Air painters in different remote locations with easels and paints set up on the side of the road painting landscapes of the mountains and valleys.

We have talked with numerous travelers. We both took photos for people trying to get selfies. There was a set of grandparents taking their small grandchildren on an adventure to the park. There was the bicycling couple who have cycled all over the world. He had a stuffed pink bunny on his helmet. Later, we passed them on the road and immediately recognized the bunny hopping along in the wind. There was a group of handicapped athletes that must have been having some kind of activity in the park. There were young people from all over the states and the world that we talked with that are working in the park for the summer.

Mountain Goat with kid
Young Big Horn Sheep

I made a quick turn off the road to try to find a spot for a photo of an old railroad trestle. We were greatly rewarded with a mountain goat sighting of a mama with her baby. The stop was known to be frequented by goats because of the minerals in the ground. As we went on, Maud wanted to see a moose, and there was one in the marsh. We saw wild horses with two new foals as we went towards St. Mary. On the way back, we saw the horses again. I told Maud to look at their feet and discovered they had shoes. We were rewarded with seeing a juvenile Big Horn Sheep. I told Maud, “Hand me my lens NOW!”

At the little store at Two Medicine, we got a couple of shirts and a soda each. Maud got a Red Jammer Huckleberry Crème Soda, and I got a Flathead Lake Gourmet Soda. They were both good!

These are all some of the things that may be the “little things” that are sometimes taken for granted or not appreciated – people helping one another, people enjoying life, beautiful scenery, teamwork, enjoying one another’s company, encouraging one another, taking time for the simple things of life. Maud & Me say, “It’s the little things that make it all worthwhile.”

June 2019

Bear Bait

For years, I tried to get the girls to go on an overnight trip. I finally wore Red down. She gave in, and we’ve had some great adventures since then. The question was, would she travel across the country with me and the Judge? She debated and came up with all kinds of excuses. Finally, after her husband intervened, she consented. I booked the flight before she could back out. 

Red was nervous as we headed toward our gate at the airport that June 2018 morning. It was her first time to fly. We had no trouble getting checked in and through security. We stopped in front the liquor store and joked about getting her a stiff drink before boarding. They weren’t even opened that early. 

The call came to board. I let Red have the window seat. Since she had never flown, I thought she’d like to be able to see the scenery change right before her eyes as we traveled west. The Judge slid in next to her, and I was on the aisle seat. The door closed, and Red started twitching. Soon we were rolling down the runway. The nose of the plane started lifting in the air. She grabbed the Judge’s hand. I told her to hold her feet up so we could take off. She looked at my questioningly. We were well in the air, and they still held hands. By the time I pried her white knuckled fingers off the Judge’s hand, she had calmed down just a smidgen. Of course, her hesitation to sit by the window may have had something to do with one of her assigned tasks for the trip. I had told her, “You get the window seat. It’s the best place to sit. If the window gets busted out, your job is to stop up the hole. The Judge will grab your feet and I’ll grab hers. It’s all good.” (Just a week or so before, a lady had been sucked out of a plane when the window was busted out)

Red had another assigned job, too. I told her that one reason I wanted her to go on this trip was because I needed bear bait. Now some folks would know exactly what that meant, but I had to explain to my traveling companions. I asked them, “Do you know what bear bait is?” “No.” “If we come across a bear and it chases after us, I need someone that runs slower than me.” For some reason, she didn’t appreciate my confidence in her skills nor her assignment. She looked at me real mean, and I was the one taking her on a once-in-a-lifetime grand adventure!

We made the flight just fine. Red had settled in and even enjoyed the flight as the world changed beneath us. The plane landed in Bozeman, Montana. We were off the plane in no time and went to gather up our luggage. The next thing we had to do was get our car rental. Of course, the smaller SUV I had signed up for turned into a large SUV I didn’t sign up for. Oh my!

I like to talk to the locals. The young man who waited on us was a student at Montana State in Bozeman. He asked if we were going to Yellowstone. I told him we were. He said, “The bears are bad this year. Be sure and watch out for them.” I cut my eyes over at Red. We all started laughing. I told him that was okay because I brought my own bear bait. Then I pointed to Red. He said, “Oh, so she runs slower than you?” Later when we stopped at my cousin’s house and then my aunt’s house, I told them Red was bear bait. Did you know that they said the same thing with a chuckle added, “Oh, so you must run slower?”

We got to test my theory (at a distance) – and let me tell you, bear bait can run faster than you think! The sequel to this story, “Bear. Bear! IT’S A BEAR!!” will follow in this blog at a later date.

Maud & Me

McDonald Lake, Glacier National Park

“I’m leaving on a jet plane. Don’t know when I’ll be back again.” My traveling partner this trip is granddaughter #1, Maud. We are in the air as this scheduled post hits my blog. If you know Maud, it should not surprise you that it is possible that I might question my sanity about this arrangement. Stay tuned……

As we’re flying off to Montana, my mind takes me back several years ago. The year I graduated from high school, my sister and I took a trip across the country, camping along the way. We were gone for three months. It was definitely a trip of a lifetime. Our travels took us to our uncle’s house in the dry sagebrush hills of Eastern Montana. Aunt Frances had died a few years before, and Uncle Buster had remarried a Southern lady. Aunt Viola was a jewel and a good cook. I loved to walk into their house after a long drive and experience her southern charm and table loaded with food. We had some fun adventures with Uncle Buster. One of the adventures was a trip to Glacier National Park.

He had a small camper that he hooked up to his truck. Aunt Viola buzzed around getting food and other items together. We all piled in the truck and started up the road with our little house attached. Uncle Buster drove much better with Aunt Viola along. He even stayed on the road – most of the time!

Uncle Buster & Aunt Viola

We drove through the Missouri River Breaks, past Zortman and Malta. Passing through that area rekindled Uncle Buster’s memories. I grew up hearing stories about that rugged country. The family left Oklahoma the summer of 1914, went north and homesteaded near Sun Prairie Flats just south of Malta. Several of my relatives who died in the 1918 flu epidemic are buried there. Uncle Buster had worked for ranches. My granddad told about Old Stink who lived in a tent in front of a cave in the Little Rockies near Zortman. My granddad’s description was, “He was an old man, Indian and Frenchman. Strong. Strong smelling feller.” 

We stopped to visit some cousins in Havre. That little town is the crown jewel of the area known as the Montana Hi-Line. That region encompasses what Montana is about – prairie, fields of wheat, cattle, mountains – all beneath the Big Sky. It was the original mainline of the Great Northern Railway. Part of that area is also dinosaur country. That was our route to Glacier National Park. 

In the park we took the Going to the Sun Road. It was kind of scary at times. Remember that Uncle Buster was driving – the same Uncle Buster that shaved when he drove. He was also pulling a camper that would swing and sway as it danced in the wind on those high ridges. On some of those hairpin turns we’d almost meet ourselves. We missed many of the grand vistas because the mountains were smothered in clouds. That is the land where Maud and I are heading. I’m sure we will find great adventures, see grand sights and add to our memories. Stay tuned for more from Maud & Me!

June 2019

On the Other Side of the Mountain

On the other side of the mountain
from the valley far below
I walked through alpine meadows
to peaks topped with snow

Cloud enshrouded the ridges
then I stepped above the heights
the veil lifted from the valleys
to reveal its hidden sights

What a glorious scene to behold
treasures delved from the deep
pearls of sparkling glacial lakes
teal waters cold and deep

Along steep mountain slopes
through virgin snowy banks
streams plunged to depths below
joining waters in the ranks

Watching the valley below
from his regal sacred shrine
a silent sentry stood guard
atop the earth’s rocky spine

Once again the curtain fell
as I walked the rocky path
pelting rain and icy snow
was unleashed in all its wrath

The night was dark and cold
fires doused from watery skies
unrestful sleep on stony ground
under ever watchful eyes

Morning brought a new dawn
though the sun refused to shine
I marveled at the wondrous day
along the trail in mountain pine

Could anything dampen my spirits
in this land so far apart
or quench the passion burning within –
in the mountains of my heart

Across flowing streams and river rocks
over shale slopes and grassy knolls
soft wind teased the grass
wild flowers bared their souls

The rough-hewn logs beckoned me
within the cabin walls
fire burning amid the stones
as the chill softly falls

Water drawn from the spring
warming on wood burning stove
the sun shining on the earth
double rainbow in the cove

The table spread with tasty fare
as the others enter the gate
greeted to warmth and food
a weary wanderer’s fate

My soul sighs with deep content
drawn to those skies of blue
already a longing tugs at my heart
as the mountains fade from view

I know one day I will return
to this land of mountains and streams
until then I’ll live on memories
and rest there in my dreams

2014

inspired by 1974 backpacking trip from the other side of the mountains

note: The first night’s camp was near Hindu Lake. There were two rock formations that looked like two Hindus at the top of the ridge standing guard over the valley.

Over the Top

Backpacking was always fun.  Yes, I got sore and tired, but it was worth it!  There is nothing quite like trekking up the mountain trails and watching the mountains unfold into valleys and streams.  There is no water to quench the thirst like that bubbling from a fresh mountain spring.  

One of my favorite backpacking trips was the year my friend went with us in 1974. It was her first experience in Montana and her first experience backpacking in the mountains. My aunt dropped us off on the far side of the mountain. We packed all the way over the top of the mountains into the canyon where my grandmother’s place was. Part way up the mountain, Sis had trouble breathing in the rising altitude.  She had been running in South Georgia, but it didn’t prepare her for the altitude. We had to divide the stuff in her pack between the rest of us to reduce her load. 

Packing in

We headed on up the trail. The ranchers and farmers around the area always liked for us to come.  It was a sure sign of rain, though none would be in the forecast.  Well, we didn’t disappoint them!  My friend & I were in the lead. We reached the top of the mountain. The trail was right on the top of the ridge.  We could see the valleys down both sides of the mountain we straddled. We saw lakes in the valleys below and scattered beds of snow and ice. By the time the others got to the top, they could not see the valley. The clouds started rolling in. Within seconds, the valleys were filled with clouds. They were so thick, we could feel the weight of the moisture. The wind picked up and mist from the clouds was on our faces. We huddled next to some spindly shrubs and crevices in the rocks to get out of the wind pelting us with icy rain and then made our way down the trail.  

We came over the mountain above Hindu Lake.  It sure was pretty! The lake was clear and cold with bits of ice and snow at the edges of the water. Looking across the valley, we could see our trail along the creek. Just around the bend from where we stood was a glacier inching its way down the side of the mountain. I could see the trail on the other side of the snow. A few animal foot prints could be seen across the icy trail. It was a bit spooky going across. I could just picture us walking across the snow and sliding down the mountain or taking a step with snow melted underneath. Neither picture was good.

We made our way down the trail, sat by the lake and waited on the others. It would soon be time to decide where to camp for the night and get some supper started. Then the rain came. We went on past Hindu Lake and set up camp with Moose Lake in sight in the valley below us. The clouds lifted enough that we could see the lake from our bathroom (a fallen tree). If you’ve never experienced seeing those mountain lakes from the mountain top, you’ve missed a grand sight.

Moose Lake

It was miserable setting up camp in the rain. It was even more miserable trying to cook supper over the open fire.  After a not-so-comfortable night, we had to pack up the tent in the rain. We were soaked! We were cold. We loaded up our packs and headed down the mountain. The weather got some better but not much. Everything was wet, and wet means heavy. Hiking in cold wet boots and clothes adds pounds to an already heavy backpack and can mess up your knees.

Wet, cold, socks and shoes drying, and loving every minute.

We camped at South Fork the next night. When we woke up the next morning, the mountains were white. The storm had set in!  Daddy said we needed to get out of the mountains. The snow was moving down the mountain. It was almost in reach of us. We headed out at a fast pace.

I was the first one out with my friend right behind me. We got to my grandmother’s cabin, and I got a fire started in the fire place and got the wood cookstove going. Soon our wet clothes, shoes and socks were drying by the fire. I put water on the stove to get hot for a bath, a tea kettle ready for hot tea and started cooking a meal. By the time the others got there, supper was ready to put on the table, the tea kettle was hot, and the little cabin was warming up for cold travelers.

When my aunt came to pick us up, we found out that a foot of snow had fallen where we had camped that first night. Daddy knew those mountains and the wrath of those storms. We were cold, wet and tired, but the memories only fill me with warmth.